“I am distraught and devastated to hear of the recent allegation of rape brought against a relative of mine, Daniel Okereke (my brother).
While it is a very difficult time for
me, and my family; I feel the need to make
clear my position, lest there
be any doubt. Rape is rape, regardless of who the face of the accused
is.
Indeed, the irony is not lost on me. I
have spent my lifelong career advocating and living my conviction that
women around the world should be able to live free of violence, sexual
harassment or any form of abuse against their persons. This conviction
led me to be involved in numerous initiatives combating violence against
women in several countries including the U.S, Liberia and Sierra Leone.
The conviction also led me to place much
of my energy on my work with Vesico Vaginal Fistula (VVF), a passion
that dates back to my time at the University of Calabar.
As a student, I heard a story about
young girls who had been forced into early marriage and were suffering
the negative and embarrassing effects of VVF. The story stayed in my
consciousness and drove me, for years, to seek ways to raise awareness
on the condition; leading to my work with a team of dedicated doctors to
carry out repair surgeries for VVF victims across the country; and my
self-produced, soon to be released movie, ‘DRY.’
So, again, it is indeed heart breaking
for me to receive and deal with news alleging a family member of mine is
an alleged perpetrator of sexual violence against a woman. I am
devastated.
This case is now in Nigeria’s criminal
justice system as the accused awaits arraignment. I have also encouraged
and assured the alleged victim of my stance against rape and applaud
her for her bravery to upset the culture of silence, in Nigeria; even as
I accord deference and patiently wait for the criminal justice system
to determine the guilt or innocence of my brother.
For Nigerian press and blogs; I call on
you to please report this case in an ethical manner. I am a married
woman living my life. The alleged transgression of my relative does not
make it mine. The focus should be the impact of rape on the alleged
victim, and resources for other alleged victims, not me.
Some members of the press and blogs have
turned me into the accuser; using my name for sensational headlines and
putting my images, exclusively, in their stories. This is a form of
victimization of me as a woman, its unethical and extremely hurtful. I
am not the alleged accused.
I therefore please ask all bloggers and
the media who have placed my pictures and name to this story to refrain
from further using me to sensationalise this story.
I thank my fans, and all well-wishers for your continued support and ask for your continued prayers.
God bless.”
A good number of young women are speaking up anonymously against the accused and if their testimonies are true then it`s safe to say Daniel is a serial rapist and has been doing this for a very long time.
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